Dear Amol,
On
a recent flight home from a high-performance leadership presentation in Napa
Valley for the executive team of a fast-growth multinational, I flipped through
the pages of the latest issue of Men's Journal (I usually buy four or five
magazines for each flight. I take and rip out the few articles I'm interested
in - but I'll leave that process for a future issue of this newsletter).
I reached a feature on Mark Wahlberg. The piece details his rise to fame. From
tough + violent beginnings (he allegedly blinded an innocent bystander in a
fight). To his brother (of New Kids on The Block fame) helping him get a record
deal as rapper "Marky Mark". To a stint as a controversial underwear
model for Calvin Klein. Then into the movies, first in bit roles and then up to
leading man. And now - as a Hollywood producer (yes, he not only starred in the
breathtakingly great film "The Fighter", he also produced it). And as
an entrepreneur who has launched a hamburger chain (WahlBurgers) and a water
company.
The article depicted him now as a devoted family man, an uber-fit athlete (60
minutes first thing in the morning...sound familiar?) - and as a go-getter who
swiftly moves from one mountaintop to the next.
But what struck me most about Mark Wahlberg's profound evolution was not what
has happened in his outer world as the years have passed. No, what intrigued me
was what's been unfolding within. His personal values have transformed. His
faith has awakened. And his moral compass has been completely reconfigured. And
because of what's been growing on the inside of his life, big things are
happening on the outside of his life. Love it.
We're still in January. You have a fresh, stain-free year ahead of you. If you
silence your Saboteur for a few seconds, the reality I need to share with you
is that you can pretty much write a whole new script for a whole new way to
work + live right now. Yes, you really are that powerful. The question isn't
"can you?". Nope. The question is "will you?" (And if not
this year - then which year?).
Here are 3 powerful brain tattoos to make this a fantastic year for you:
#1. My Identity Shapes My Reality.
Neuroscience confirms your brain is like a giant spam filter - you only see
what you focus on. So if your self-identity is all about being a vicitim,
you'll literally spot conditions that confirm your victimhood. On the other
hand, if you see yourself as a powerful creator of your conditions, you'll see
opportunities to get to your goals - and dreams - all around you.
#2. Dream Big But Start Small.
Ok,
you've heard me say this before but a good coach repeats the fundamentals until
they become a part of the way you think and perform. As I wrote in my new book
"The Secret Letters of The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari" - "small
daily improvements over time lead to stunning results." One of the great
keys to transformation are those little daily wins that stack up into a tsunami
of change over the coming months.
#3. Vague Plans Provoke Vague Results.
I
strongly recommend that you write out a 12 month plan, recording at least 5
little or big projects that you commit to getting done each month to ensure
this year ends in rare-air. The fact is that a plan becomes a self-fulfilling
prophecy (as researchers in the emerging field of positive psychology are confirming).
In other words, clarity breeds mastery. And the goals you set drive the actions
you'll take.
I truly hope that this year serves as a vehicle for you to change the game.
That this year is the year you do the best work of your career (a job is only a
job if you choose to see it as a job). The year that you get fit like an
athlete. The year to get your financial life to a place called exceptional. The
year that you grow the family life of your dreams. And the year that inspired
you to craft the life you've always wanted to live (and become the person
you've always wished you could be).
Wishing you all green lights. Now, go change the world! :)
Robin